Dating

Is She Open To The Idea Of A Threesome? Here Are Signs

You’re down for a threesome with your GF, but how can you tell that she’s on the same page? It’s not always easy to ask, especially if you fear getting a drink splashed in your face. While some women might find the idea of threesomes sexy AF, others might be totally turned off by the idea of you wanting to see another person naked. So, here are some signs that she might just have the idea of a threesome on her mind.

  1. She’s not into vanilla sex.  She’s not reserved in the bedroom and likes to try different things on a regular basis. Not only does this mean you’re going to have an amazing sex life, but it also points to a hunger for trying exciting and daring things – and maybe with other people. If she’s into the latest trends and sex toys and she’s down for S&M and anal,  maybe a threesome is next (if she hasn’t already crossed it off her sex bucket list).
  2. She’s done it before.  She tells you that she had a threesome before and loved it. That’s key for her to want to experiment with one again. She might even go one step further and tell you what she would’ve done differently during that experience – or who she would’ve done. These types of confessions show you that there’s a good chance she’d want to explore threesomes again.
  3. It’s one of her fantasies. Just because she has lots of crazy fantasies, it obviously doesn’t mean she’s willing to try them all. Still, if she’s shared her threesome fantasy and you get the feeling that it’s something that she’d really like to do, you’re pretty much guaranteed of her wanting to make that it a reality because she finds the idea really appealing.
  4. She checks out other women. She might like to lust over other women and maybe even flirt with them in front of you. This could be a sign that she’s more sexually fluid than you initially thought. Also, if she’s comfortable enough to do that kind of thing in front of you, it’s probably because she wants to test your reaction and see if it’s something you find hot.
  5. She gets turned on watching you flirt. If she likes it when you flirt with other women, that’s a sign she might be willing to bring one into your bedroom. The point is that she’s not the jealous type of girlfriend, which means she’d be more likely to be okay with an open relationship or threesomes. Sharing is caring!
  6. She’s really into sex. She loves sex and wants to have it as much as she can. She’s comfortable with her body and thinks sex is one of the most amazing pleasures on earth. Although these points might not be enough of a sign that she’d be interested in having a threesome with you, they’re a damn good start. A person who’s open about sex and has a mad love for sexual pleasure might be tempted to find new ways to quench their fires.
  7. She’s open with you about finding other men hot. If she tells you that she finds a certain man hot or she explains that it’s a purely sexual thing but she’s attracted to other guys, she could be hinting that she’d love to bring a man into the bedroom. Sorry if your girl-on-girl fantasies have just been crushed, but hey, maybe that’s the kind of threesome she’s really after.
  8. She doesn’t believe in complete monogamy. Maybe she can be faithful to a partner and wants to be exclusive with you but she has a grey area in relationships. For example, she might not be 100% convinced that monogamy’s the way to go or that couples have to be completely exclusive with each other all the time. It’s this grey area that might play to your advantage. It could mean that she’s cool with having sexual experiences outside of your relationship that include you, such as swinging or a threesome. If that’s the case, it’s worth asking her more questions to get to the bottom of what she really wants and how to make it happen.